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22 Oct
What to Watch Instead of Porn: The Awesomeness List of 101 Healthy Alternatives You're doing your best. You've known for a while that pornography has become a problem in your life. You're seeing how often you get triggered,…
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16 May
Understanding Pornography Triggers in Recovery Understanding pornography triggers - how they work and how to avoid them - requires answering the larger question of why a person is triggered. Pornography…
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18 Jan
The Importance of Self-Compassion in Pornography Recovery As much as we want it to be easy, pornography recovery can be a challenge, one often riddled with setbacks and relapses. You don't have…
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07 Jan
Dashboard: Why Can’t I View My Own Reports? Until recently, users and accountability partners had different places to log in and see either reports or their account information. Now we have streamlined the…
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20 Jul
Accountability Partner Training #1: Why Do People Look at Pornography? There are many reasons people look at pornography.The crazy thing is that most of the time, it isn't about sex.It isn't about how beautiful, thin…
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20 Jul
Accountability Partner Training #2: Your Role as an Accountability Partner As pornography thrives in secrecy, removing that secrecy is a powerful tool.Your friend will have extra strength and motivation to avoid pornography knowing that you…
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20 Jul
Accountability Partner Training #3: What Should I Do If I Discover That My Friend Looked At Pornography? You're probably wondering what to do if/when you find out your friend looked at pornography.When a bad report comes it's simple.Contact your friend and ask,…
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20 Jul
Accountability Partner Training #4: Justification Sounds Like… Let's talk about what to do when your friend justifies himself or herself in looking at pornography. A justification like this always contains a lie.…
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